i think i'll pass

Nov. 19, 2006 - 12:40 pm

Looking at what you wrote, Nikki… I tend to agree. There’s more to it than that, as well. Re-reading, I think it came through pretty loud and clear that I’m just really not a “casual sex” kind of guy. Even in my last relationship, Lisa and I started the physical way too early… as awesome as the sex later was, it took a awhile to get there. Strangely enough, it took until there was a deep emotional connection.

That isn’t to say we didn’t try and enjoy a lot (heh), but it didn’t become *amazing* until much later.

That, coupled with the later conversation with my neighbor that she was “pretty fucked up,” as well as things I noticed myself while talking to her, I think I will pass on this one. If *I* can sense these things (as dense as I am), then there’s probably a helluva lot more there I didn’t pick up on. Even though I’m not married (or own a rabbit), “Fatal Attraction” repercussions come to mind.

Still not ready for a relationship which could lead to emotional (and physical) intimacy, of course.

My also-recently-single college buddy is quite the opposite; he wants *only* NSA sex. Different strokes, and alla that, but heading down to a cathouse in Tijuana with him (at his constant urging) is pretty much not in the cards for me. He also wants to head down for Carnivale… I’m wondering if I decide to go in that direction if I might not want to go ahead and jump in with both feet… Rio would do just that.

Also, my neighbor is from Costa Rica… he says I don’t have to go all the way down to Brazil; they have gorgeous women throwing themselves at us Americans down there.

So there’s lots of options, should I decide to go there. Option #1 is… do I even want to?